Happy Lumpy Rug day!

It is indeed Lumpy Rug Day. But this is also the weekend that Matthew and I are celebrating our anniversary. The date was actually last week, but as we had house guests, we opted to postpone it to this week.

Yesterday, we went to Abbay (3375 Buford Highway Suite 1050, Atlanta–404.321.5808), an Ethiopian restaurant for dinner. Very yummy. We’ve had African food once before–I think in California–and knew there were places around the city but hadn’t hunted one down yet. Love their sponge bread.

We drove to dinner during the beginning of last night’s thunderstorm and we were right on the edge of it, driving just fast enough to stay out of the leading edge as long as we didn’t hit a stop light. As we encountered several of those, the edge would overtake us, slamming the car with this deluge of big, fat raindrops. When the light turned green, we’d drive out of it. We turned it into a leapfrog sort of game, trying to stay ahead of the storm, with it overtaking us and us driving out of it in turns. But when we got to the restaurant, we were sure we’d have to run for cover, but we seemed to have sheered out of the perimeter of it.

Not so for dessert.

We decided to have Cheesecake Factory cheesecake. This wall of rain hit just as we were pulling into the Northpointe Mall parking lot. Got totally soaked and windswept running in. Guess that ole storm was saving up just for us. The wait for seating at the CF was 45-60 min. so we got a couple slices to go, and drove home to enjoy it with our spastic skunk. (Hobkin got a couple mouthfuls of whipped cream.) Then we completed our evening with a late night show of X-2: X-Men United which was thoroughly enjoyable, although my suspension of disbelief got a bit strained towards the end.

Today, we woke up early to go up north to the Kangaroo Conservation Center where they have the “largest kangaroo collection outside of Australia.” It was wonderful. The folks there have their priorities down: kangas first, people afterward. Acres and acres of beautiful land for them to roam about on in big, social mobs (many kangas are called a “mob”). They had a motorized tour, and then a hands-on information center where we got to pet the kangas in a controlled environment. Just a lovely, lovely time. I highly recommend it to anyone who hasn’t been there.

Then we had lunch at the Italian piano bar around the corner from us, “Altobelli’s” and tonight we’re going to see Salome at the Shakespeare Tavern. We’re not sure what we’re doing tomorrow. Depends on how wide the influences of Music Midtown are. I’d like to go to the Botanical Gardens, but not if it’s going to be insane.

This is turning out to be a truly wonderful weekend.

Earthquake!

Did anyone else feel the earthquake that hit the Southeast this morning?

It was just shy of 5am (EST) and Hobkin was asleep in my arms. He woke up and scrabbled down, which woke me and Matthew up. I followed Hobkin as he scampered to his area in the kitchen, and then he just stood there, with his little eyes all wide and his tail straight up. Small things often spook the fuzzwit, so I didn’t think much of it, until the rattling started.

It was a very small quake as far as they go. Matthew and I exchanged “did you feel that?” and “was that a quake?” dialogue, and made some tentative moves to retrieve Hobkin and find a doorway to stand in. But it ended before we got ourselves much beyond “maybe it’s a big truck passing by?” Huh. I didn’t even realize we were close to a fault. Goodness.

Apparently skunks, like other animals, can sense earthquakes before they happen. Neat. And weird.

Thomas Becket and My Man Godfrey

dude_the‘s leaving today. His plane departs late this afternoon. Time for everyone to return to their regularly scheduled routines. Pook.

We went to the Shakespeare Tavern last night to see a non-Shakespeare play: Murder in the Cathedral by T.S. Eliot. About the martyrdom of Thomas Becket, I didn’t realize it was going to be a musical. *Blink* It was, however, much better as a musical than it would have been as a straight reading of T.S. Eliot. The first act was a little slow, but the second act made up for it. And I liked the dancing.

Next week, I believe, we’re going to see their production of Salome which will also have dancing in it, I assume. Not a Shakespeare play again. And the Tavern has been branching out with the whole song and dance thing of late. Coolness.

When we got home, we pulled out a bunch of DVDs to watch. I only made it through My Man Godfrey, a movie I’ve always loved, but forget that I’ve seen until I watch the opening again. Hmm. My brain is strange. Matthew and dude_the may have also watched The Man Who Knew Too Little and Support Your Local Sheriff. Actually, I’m certain they watched the former as I was still awakeish for some of Too Little but am not so sure ’bout the latter.

Going to wake them both up in a couple hours. Early for them (I’m surrounded by night critters), but dude_the needs to get back into a diurnal routine for work next week. Maybe we’ll go out to The Flying Biscuit for breakfast. Scrambled Tofu, yum.

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A few Fantasm pix

Drove Nick to the airport on Thursday so he could fly back to Florida. Nick’s gone. Pook. dude_the is still here though. Hurray! Everyone’s asleep. Even Hobkin’s curled up in a fuzzy oval in my lap. Mornings are pretty solitary times for me, even when the house is full.

I’m feeling much better today. My Rheumatologist doubled my Prednisone dosage and my flare-up seems to be receding. Although I have the twitches from the upped meds. Trade-offs.

I was puttering around with some of the pix people took at Fantasm of me.

Here’s one that that Al Cantrell took of me and Cloei, webmistress of the Nekkid Nerds website. Cloei’s a real sweetie and during my first Fantasm when I was all scared and shy, she hung out with me and eased my “bunch of strangers all around me, what do I say, what do I do?” stressing.

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Feeling better

Sent a note to Jane Jewell and Andrew Burt (Critter captain and new VP of the SFWA) asking about how to get my info updated in the SFWA directory, got a note from Andrew confirming that there’s a bug in the MPC process and letting me know that he’s re-queued my story to go up next week, and will call my Rhumatologist back in half an hour. We played phone tag all yesterday, but the nurse said there were things we could do to treat me immediately for my flare-up.

I’m just feeling better in general overall today. But having some control over various annoyances and issues really does help. Plus I started feeling much better yesterday after I took my dose of Prednisone. I think I might be allergic to the muscle relaxants my neurologist gave me for my TOS, which would be irksome, but would also explain my flare-up. I’m having systemic allergic symptoms, and the only thing I’ve been injesting that’s new are those.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Stupid physiology.

Three Levels of Suckitude

Got my 2003 SFWA member directory in the mail yesterday and I’m not in it. Grr. Their membership process could stand to be streamlined.

Also, the new automated MPC process for Critters that Andrew has implemented still has some bugs in it. When I used my MPC for the story that went up last week, it appears to have knocked the other story I had in the queue into the holding area. So when it should have gone up this week, it didn’t. Grumble. I fired off a note to Andrew.

And finally, I’m having a Lupus/MCTD flare-up. I’m still on the Prednisone! What the hell am I doing having a flare-up? I should have noticed the warning signs over the weekend. I was all achy and tired on Sunday, but I thought that was just from an excess of fun at Fantasm. Now my temperature regulatory system is completely on the fritz and I’ve got a rampaging fever, my brain feels like it’s trying to smash itself out of my skull if I move, and everything hurts. Fuck. Calling my Rheumatologist as soon as his office opens.

Not my favorite day of days, all things considered.

Wednesday after Easter

Forty-one critiques at Critters for my Chinese-flavored fairy tale, with the possibility of one or two more trickling in before the week is up. And today my traditional fairy tale goes up. Ack. I’m so behind on my thank you notes! (Thank you britzkrieg and prosewitch, btw. More detailed email will be coming to you soon, but wanted to let you know that I got your crits and greatly, greatly appreciate the insightful feedback!)

I think I miscalculated the amount of free time I’d have these weeks. dude_the and Nick are still here (hurray!), and I’m still recovering from Fantasm. My correspondence (and writing) time has taken a rather substantive hit.

Urk. But urk in a good way. Life is better overfull than empty.

Monday after Fantasm

Still recovering from Fantasm so I took today off. dude_the and Nick greatly enjoyed their first Fantasm, and I expect they’ll be back for next year’s.

Yesterday, we thought about going in for the “Con in Review” panel, but by the time we dragged ourselves into a semblance of wakefulness, we decided we’d rather go out for breakfast and then come back to soak in the hot tub. I’m sad that we didn’t get a chance to make our goodbyes, but we did make some goodbye noises as we were leaving on Saturday (technically Sunday) to folks like Zwi and Hugh & Melanie, so that’s something.

All of us are suffering from various aches and pains. My feet still feel like the soles are one big bruise. The hot tub helped a lot. Then we spent the rest of the day watching the last three episodes of Angel (dude_the hadn’t seen them yet) and the first six or seven episodes of Firefly in order, starting with the proper pilot. Seeing the Fireflys that way makes me want to sock Fox in the mouth even more. When I saw that show for the first time, I was beginning to think that Joss had lost has storyteller’s knack, but my faith has been restored. Now I’m just pissed that the questions I have about who characters are and where they’re going with the storyline will never be resolved. Dagnabit. Firefly, shown in the proper sequence, was top notch entertainment. Going to watch the rest of them today after breakfast, which will probably be lunch as everyone is still asleep and gives every indication of remaining in that state for several more hours. Even Hobkin.

Fantasm rocked. Again. The Ms. Fantasm pageant, despite my stressing before the contest to get everything/one organized and coordinated, went smoothly. All hail the new Ms. Fantasm! (*sniffle*) And many thanks to my panel of judges: Jay Lind, redwitch, Zwi (Ms. Fantasm 2000), greysonwolf, and alladinsane.

Although Iron Bartender went a little less smooth, IMO. There were apparatus issues. When we asked for drink trays, the hotel provided us with a pair of these super-sized platters that I could barely lift, much less serve drinks on, and we had to wait for something more suitable to get rounded up. The stage was maybe half the size of what it had been in the past, and I didn’t have any way to move between the Iron Bartender side and the challenger side, so I could only interact with the challengers, which toned down what I did a lot because I didn’t want to give the Iron Bartenders TOO much of an advantage. Plus I didn’t get to jiggle with bardiva. Pook. But still, it seemed like everyone had a good time, which is the important thing. Even Matthew, who throughout judging the whole competition managed to emerge unscathed until the very last shot (mixed by 9jack9) which was very pretty (flamey goodness), but after blowing out, the flammable alcohol hadn’t been all burned away. Poor Matthew. I believe he said it was much like doing a shot of lighter fluid.

The party battles were fabu, as always, but we were disappointed that F.A.G.G. didn’t have a representative party. Last year, their’s was just amazing and got my party judge vote. And, of course, they’re hella fun people. After wandering around checking out the various party battle scenarios (were there really only three official ones this year??) I had overwhelmed my pathetic alcohol tolerance and had a hard time keeping my balance at the N9 party with the strobing lights, the drumming, and the dancing people. I was trying to drink enough so that I couldn’t feel the shooting pains in my feet (Fantasm is not the place to break in a pair of 4-inch heeled boots) and had failed, despite my lack of equilibrium. So we retired to the Bendovaho bash where I commandeered a spot on the couch that was next to the door and could see, wave, and chat with everyone that walked in, while at the same time had a good view of the various and sundry entertainment. To the chick in the blue plaid Catholic schoolgirl outfit: you made the party for dude_the! (Anyone have pictures of dude_the and this worthy young lass?) Also had a fantastic chat with Zwi, whom I adore. I wish she and her hubby lived closer to Atlanta so our conversations weren’t limited to once a year!

Matthew didn’t bring along the digicam as we expected we’d be too busy to want to keep track of it. We’ve already got a promise from Al to send us his pix, and Remy took some amazing shots of Starchild and me. I hope at least some of the people who snapped pix will email me.

One thing which I didn’t expect was meeting fellow Mensans at Fantasm. yakdog brought an attractive young man to my attention, and his first question to me was “You’re an active member of the local group?” It being Fantasm and all, a number of “local group” possibilities went through my mind, but Mensa wasn’t in that selection. As it turns out, there were several more Mensans attending Fantasm. Gotta love it when social interests overlap. Think that’s my cue to become more active in our Mensa local chapter.

Hope the Slave Auction paid for the damage to the elevators. Remy (going for $400+ has to have broken a record for highest bid for a male EVER–which absolutely tickled me. He’s totally worth it.) and the hypnotized chick in the red dress were doing their very best to raise enough money all on their own.

Today, I think we’ll take it easy. We need to go grocery shopping, and we might zip into town briefly for a bit. Nick has expressed an interest in refilling his tea supply from Teavana, and we’re almost out of Empress of China ourselves. Or maybe we’ll just veg.

Fantasm weekend, Saturday AM

Woke up at 8:30 this morning, and that’s so not good. We retired early from the Fantasm revelry last night. Probably left the hotel at around 1:30 AM. Got home to a very unhappy Hobkin at 2:15ish. Crashed out after feeding skunk at 3ish. Five and a half hours of sleep is not gonna cut it. Especially after only having four hours the night before.

Agh. Stupid insomnia.

But thus far, the convention is a blast! Matthew’s run a bit ragged getting the Ink Trak situated. And the attendance to the panels is not sterling. But Caitlin R. Kiernan is here. She’s absolutely fascinating. And Cecilia Tan and Cherie Priest (wicked_wish. There’ll be many more really cool panels today. Hopefully the word will get out and more people will eschew the spanking and electricity play demonstrations and come see . . . oh.

Well, maybe.

Passed on my Ms. Fantasm mantle to a lovely lass with amazing piercings in her back. I feel confident that my title is in worthy hands. But . . . *sniffle* . . . I’m no longer the reigning queen.

dude_the just woke up so I’ll continue my update later.